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Learn Conflict Management in Life

Each one of us desires to live a happy life. However, a happy life is the one which is free from conflicts. Do you know the actual definition of conflict? Well, it is nothing but the difference of opinions that exist between two minds. Despite the love that exists between spouses, covert conflicts and consequently overt quarrels occur between them. Even parents and children tend to bicker and quarrel every now and then. Last but not the least, quarreling and revenges due to conflict are also evident amongst colleagues. Why conflict has taken such a stronghold everywhere? What’s the reason behind it? Well, the prime cause of conflict is misunderstanding.

So, understanding is the sole powerful key to conflict management. Irrespective of the people between whom the conflict has aroused, managing conflict becomes easy by removing misunderstanding through right understanding. When it is the matter of how to resolve conflict, there are many interpersonal conflict resolution techniques to remove misunderstanding between colleagues, spouses, children, parents, and so on. These techniques are shown by our beloved spiritual master ‘Dadashri’ who has disclosed all possible keys of conflict management between relationships apart from explaining the causes of conflicts.

Read on to know about these diverse conflict resolution techniques...

 

 

Spiritual Quotes on "Learn Conflict Management in Life"

  1. What is the purpose of the human life? It is to free yourself completely from the bondage of rebirths. It is to become Absolute, the pure Self, but if you have not acquired the knowledge of the pure Self, then live your life for others.
  2. External conflicts lasts one life and Internal conflicts may last for hundreds of life times. They may even last for thousands of life times
  3. One is not to win the world, he has to win the home (family).
  4. If one's mind becomes conflict-free that is "moksha" (liberation), conflict filled mind that is worldly life.
  5. Your life should become free of conflicts. The home environment must be free from conflicts. Only then should one talk of liberation, not otherwise.
  6. True parents will tell their son he is walking down the wrong path of life, and upon telling him, the son will stop his wrongdoings. That is the definition of true parents.
  7. Parents tend to show so much affection towards their children that they become spoilt.
  8. No personality (prakruti) is a waste, but you have to discover what it is useful for. You do not have to keep saying, 'You do not know how to make this sweet. You do not know how to do this and how to do that.' But, instead discover what he knows.
  9. What are the signs of being enlightened? It is when everyone in the home does wrong and you turn it around and make it right.
  10. God has said that giving advice to anyone without being asked is egoism.

 

Science behind "Learn Conflict Management in Life"

If there is no intent of hostility left within you, then the other person will not have any intent of hostility towards you either. If you do not get annoyed or angry, neither will they.

Man runs around in vain chasing illusionary happiness and when his wife turns against him, he realizes that this worldly life is not meant for enjoyment or indulging in. Yet, he forgets this fact again the very next moment! Because of this illusion he takes such a beating, it renders him completely oblivious to the reality.

Your energies will grow in proportion with the amount of adjustments you make; your weakness will break by that much.

The Lord has said, "If you improve, then everything else will improve in your presence."

Try It Yourself

Try It Yourself

  • You should explain to your young children that every morning after their bath, they should worship the Sun Lord, and ask and pray for right intellect for themselves and the world and for the salvation of the world. If they do this much, they will be instilled with right values. This way the parents become free from their karmic bondage with them.
  • Every morning you should pray sincerely and repeat five times, "I do not want to hurt any living being in the slightest extent, with this mind, speech, or body," Despite doing this, if you happen to hurt anyone, then you should sincerely repent and take a vow that you will not hurt anyone again. By doing this, you will wash away your bad deeds and your life will become peaceful.
  • At Least Try the Experiment:
  • At least decide that you do not want any conflicts. Do this for three days; what's wrong in trying the experiment? People experiment with fasting, they'll fast for three days for their health, so why not try this? Everyone in the household should get together and decide, "We like what Dada is saying. Let us all make a decision to do away with conflicts." Do this and see what happens.
Freedom from Conflicts by Gnan

Freedom from Conflicts by Gnan

Gnan is Freedom from All Conflicts :

"Now you have to break free from all revenge, so come to me and take knowledge of self-realization, then you will be set free. You have to become free from all revenge in this very life and I will show you the way. Why do people seek death when they are fed up with life? It is because they do cannot deal with this kind of stress. Surely, you will have to understand everything. How long can you continue living under so much pressure? The life of human beings today has become like that of insects, they are in perpetual torment. Why should there be any torment after one is born as a human? Is such a state becoming for the one who is the lord of the fourteen universes?  The whole world is in a state of torment and if there is no torment, then there prevails a state of illusion. The world is not outside the parameters of these two states. When you become the enlightened Self, you are free from all torments and illusion."

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Life Without Conflict

Life Without Conflict
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Leben ohne Konflikte

Leben ohne Konflikte
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Klesh Vinanu Jivan (Transliterated)
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