Discovering Love: Finding True Love in Reality

“I love you!” … “I love you!” … “He cheated on me!” … “Mom, you love brother more than me!”

In society, the word ‘love’ has been crippled so much so, that at every step, a question arises that what really is love? To express love, words like feelings, emotions, attachment, affection, lovingness, and care are also used. Are these feelings called love? Is this the right way of discovering love?

In daily interactions, the word ‘love’ is used at many places, but at the same time, in those very interactions or relationships, when attachment and hatred arise, then the question arises that is this love? Where in relationships, selfishness, slyness, desire of getting something in return is being indicated towards each other, is there really love there? When blames are being put on each other or accusations are being made against each other, that is when a question arises that can this happen where there is love? What can be called true love? Where can we find true love?

Replies to all these questions are found here from the embodiment of love Himself, the Enlightened One. He gives the definition of true love, with the help of which, all the misconceptions in the world regarding love are gotten rid of. One experiences immense pain in the heart when bitterness arises in the so-called love relationships in the world. How can a loving behavior be cultivated in all those relationships—that understanding is revealed here. Today, cases of falling in love, falling out of love, and consequently getting disheartened or depressed are common among the youth and teenagers. For them, a true understanding expressing the right path gets revealed here to help them on their journey of discovering love.

The whole world can only be conquered by true love. The pure love, that the world has not seen, not known, not believed, not experienced—that only is the divine love. The one who has tasted such love never ever forgets it! In today’s age, despite being trapped in all the worldly entanglements, the path to attain such pure love is disclosed here.

What is Real Love?

What is real love? Let us understand the definition of true love and where can one get pure love in this video.

Spiritual Quotes

With love one would never see the fault of the wife or the children throughout his life. In love, one never sees any faults at all.
Infatuation and attraction can either be above normal or below normal. Love is within normality; it remains constant without changing.
Real love is that which remains the same whether one receives flowers or thorns of insults.
Real love is unadulterated and pure. Real love does not have motives of sex, greed or pride.
People want unconditional love, love devoid of selfishness.
Pure love, real love exists where there is no selfishness; where there are no feelings of 'yours-mine'. Wherever there is a feeling of' 'yours-mine', there is definitely selfishness as well as ignorance of the Self.
That which increases one moment and decreases the next, is not love: That which resides in the heart and remains the same, is real love.
God exists where there is honesty in relative interactions and where there is pure love, which does not increase, or decrease. These are the two places where God resides. Where there is love, faith and purity, that is where God is.
Love that fluctuates is not true love; it is attachment. Love that is constant is God's love.
There will be no tenacity where there is pure love. Tenacity is infatuation.
People will listen to you when you become the ‘Embodiment of Love’ [Prem Swaroop]. When can you become the ‘Embodiment of Love’? When you do not look for laws or rules; When you do not see anyone at fault.
‘Pure love’ means that it never increases or decreases. If it does not decrease when you curse him and it does not increase when you give him garlands of flowers; it is ‘Pure Love’. ‘Pure love’ is considered Parmatma prem (Love of God). That is indeed true religion.
When there is not a trace of worldly love that is called ‘absolute ultimate love’ [parmarth prem]!
One can become ‘Embodiment of Love’ [Prem Swaroop], only when there is no my-ness [mamata].
Where there is love, there are no faults. Where the love of give-and-take arises, all faults will be seen there.
Whatever one does in this world, he does it out of compulsion; so it is indeed our lack of understanding when we scold someone for what they do. If you scold him, he will do it even more. (Instead) You should explain to him with love. All diseases will disappear with love. You will get pure love either from the Gnani Purush [the enlightened one] or his followers!
This ‘science’ is prem swaroop (embodiment of love). There is nothing else in love; nothing like anger-pride-deceit-greed are to be found in love. If they are present, till then, love will not be there.
The ultimate form is the embodiment of love (Prem swaroop)! The love of these (so called) lovers (Romeo-Juliet) does not work there. The Love of God (the Lord) is ‘Pure Love’. That which increases or decreases is infatuation [asakti]. There is no increase or decrease in ‘Pure Love’.
The amount of abhorrence that departs, that much of ‘Pure Love’ arises. When abhorrence goes away completely, then Pure Love arises in totality. This is the only way.
I don’t intend to fight with anyone; I have only one weapon of love. I want to win the world with love. What the world calls love, is really worldly love. [True] Love is when even if you curse me, I would not get ‘depressed’ and when you garland me with flowers, I would not become ‘elevated’. In true love, there would not be any changes. Changes can occur in the intent and feelings (bhaav) of the body, but not in ‘pure love’.
There is no problem if the other person pushes us but we have to make sure that we do not push the other person. Only then will we obtain the love of the other person!
You have to recognize the Knowledge of the Gnanis’ [the enlightened ones]. You have to recognize the world from the perspective of love (prem swaroop).
The fruit of worldly love is indeed revenge (vengeance).
Where there is love, there are no faults. Where the love of give-and-take arises, all faults will be seen there.
People will listen to you when you become the ‘Embodiment of Love’ [Prem Swaroop]. When can you become the ‘Embodiment of Love’? When you do not look for laws or rules; When you do not see anyone at fault.

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