Questioner : Does the quarreling have anything to do with the kind of money people have?
Dadashri: That is the very cause. If the money is pure, the mind will always remain pure. The wealth that has entered the home has been acquired through dishonest means and that is why it creates quarrels. That is why I had decided from a very young age that if possible, I did not want any illicit money entering my home and if it did under certain circumstances, then it should be left in the business and should not enter the home at all. It has been sixty-six years and not a single penny of illicit money, has entered my home and never has a conflict arisen in the home. From the very beginning, we had decided that we would run the household within a certain budget. The business may make a profit of thousands of rupees but how much money would A. M. Patel make if he were to work for someone else? At the most, he would earn six hundred to seven hundred rupees a month. Success in business depends on the merit karma. Our spending was limited to the amount of salary I would have earned as an employee and the rest of the money was left in the business. If the income tax office were to write to the business asking for money, I would just have to instruct them to pay off the debt from the money retained in the business. One can never tell what kind of an attack may come. Now if the money had all been spent, then an attack from the income tax office, will lead to a heart attack! Have we not seen these attacks come to people? How can you call this a life? What do you think? Do you think it is a mistake or not? This is the mistake that you have to destroy.
There is book named "The Science of Money" read on to understand science behind it.
Book Name : life without conflict (Page #77 Paragraph #3 & #4 And Page #78 Paragraph #1)
A. Questioner: Definition of Suffering Dadashri: True unhappiness is when you are hungry and you do... Read More
A. Questioner: Dada, my children misbehave at home. My scolding has no effect on them. Dadashri: ... Read More
Q. Words hurt children … so how to deal with children?
A. Dadashri: In the current times, there is nothing better than speaking as little as possible. Today... Read More
Q. How to reprimand or scold children for their improvement?
A. Questioner: How can I tell whether I have improved? Dadashri: When others see love in you even... Read More
Q. I have big row with my wife, who is at fault?
A. Questioner : Some people just do not understand, no matter how nicely you interact with... Read More
Q. The other person comes to pick a fight, what should I do?
A. Questioner : What should we do if we do not want to get into a conflict but the other person comes... Read More
Q. What is the ultimate solution to conflict between man and woman?
A. Dadashri: Man has to marry for his food! He may think to himself, 'I am the bread winner,' but who... Read More
Q. How conflicts can be resolved?
A. Dadashri: The one who learns the art of adjusting is the one who has turned towards the path of... Read More
Q. How do I deal with difficult spouse?
A. Dadashri: It would be a different matter if after quarreling with your wife; you would have nothing... Read More
Q. What is the importance of 'True Intent' in resolving conflicts?
A. Questioner : What should we do when we know that despite our efforts to compromise to reach a... Read More
Q. What should be the Goal of Life?
A. Dadashri: Why do you conduct your business? Questioner : To earn money. Dadashri : Money for... Read More
Q. What is Ideal Business and what are its Limits?
A. Questioner : What is ideal Business? Dadashri: The best kind of business is one where there is no... Read More
Q. Be Aware of the Dangers in Business but Be Fearless.
A. Dadashri: Every business has gains and losses associated with it. If there are a lot of mosquitoes... Read More
Q. Today if a person tries to do business honestly, his business Incurs a loss, why is that?
A. Questioner : Today if a person tries to do business honestly, his business Incurs a loss, why is... Read More
Q. I have a lot of worries about my business. How to stop worrying?
A. Questioner : I have a lot of worries about my business. I am faced with a lot of... Read More
Q. No customers no business, what should I do?
A. Customers: Who Brings Them? Questioner : I open my shop early and close late in order to attract... Read More
Q. Keep Your Intentions Pure To Pay All Debts
A. Questioner : I have incurred a very heavy loss in my business, what should I do? Should I close the... Read More
Q. How dangerous is the Abuse of Power?
A. Some with power and authority will oppress those under them. The one who abuses his power will lose... Read More
Q. Why to protect your subordinates?
A. People criticize and attack their subordinates. You fools! Why don't you attack your boss? That is... Read More