Avoid Clashes: One of the Easiest Conflict Resolution Techniques

“Avoid Clashes”

This is one of the easiest conflict resolution techniques. When absorbed in your daily routine, it fills your life with immense peace and harmony.

Let us study how to deal with conflict in two different scenarios and learn how to apply conflict resolution techniques in both, in order to avoid clashes.

Scenario 1 - When you clash with someone:

Say you bang your head against a wall, you get hurt, but the wall remains unaffected. In the same way, when you clash with someone it means that you are creating the conflict and therefore hurting yourself.

Scenario 2 - When someone comes to clash with you:

When a charging bull comes your way, even if you are a king you would have to move aside to avoid getting hurt. When such situations arise in your life you should avoid clashing with the other person and move aside to avoid getting hurt.

By applying the conflict resolution techniques within these pages in your day-to-day life, you can create a conflict free environment around you. Param Pujya Dadashri has exposed this science behind ‘Avoid Clashes’ and you can read more about it here.

Avoid Clashes

If we fight with parents for money with our parents, she may give but not with her heart. We argue with parents for our wants. They are working for kids.

Spiritual Quotes

  1. In all clashes, both parties suffer. If you hurt anyone, you will inevitably suffer pain at that moment.
  2. Clashes occur because you follow your own laws and interpretations.
  3. The world has been created through conflicts and perpetuated through revenge.
  4. If someone tries to clash with you but you do not clash with them, then common sense will arise.
  5. Difference of opinion is a clash, and to clash is a "weakness".
  6. In this world, all conflicts you encounter are due entirely to your own mistakes.
  7. To clash is only our own ignorance. There is no such thing as "right" or "wrong" in God's eyes. According to God, duality does not exist at all.
  8. Situations of conflicts dealt with the knowledge of Akram Vignan will lead towards your spiritual progress.
  9. Avoid clash in all situations of life. A clash-free life is a life of liberation.
  10. If the other person makes a mistake, it has no value; but if a clash occurs (with someone), there are serious consequences. God does not exist where there is clash.

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