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Positive Parenting: Parent-Child Relationship

When it comes to family life, everyone strives to figure out how the relationship between parents and children can become ideal. Positive parenting techniques work well for raising children with discipline and good moral values, and are every parents’ dream. However, it is not an easy feat. And it is important to know that the parent child relationship is a two-way street, in other words, it is actually a partnership between a parent and their child.

A garden with different flowers becomes beautiful when it blossoms. Similarly, if parents learn how to be a ‘gardener’ and are able to recognize their child’s personality and nourish it, then their ‘garden’ will become fragrant! This is what positive parenting is all about!

When parents develop effective parenting skills, they are able to take the initiative in filling the generation gap. When parents start to understand the balance of where to place boundaries, where to encourage, and where to discourage, then their children will not get spoiled. In this way they become good parents. When people do not know how to be a good parent, distance between the two develops.

“Every young adult has the potential power to help the entire world. He just needs the right guidance and support,” says Param Pujya Dada Bhagwan.

With proper understanding, youth can also strengthen their relationship with their parents.

With an aim to offer an in-depth, complete understanding of today’s youth, Param Pujya Dada Bhagwan has revealed how to raise a child and teenager with pure love and equanimity, so that they blossom in all fields of life. He has given positive parenting solutions for instilling moral values, good manners, and discipline, which work even during adolescence.

Read on to get a clear understanding of how to be a better parent using these effective parenting tips.

Generation Gap

Parents and children today often complain that they do not understand each other. All parents compare their children with their peers and this widens the gap between parents and children. Pujya Niruma explains how to avoid falling in this trap and create a healthy parent-child relationship at home.

Top Questions & Answers

  1. Q. What is the role of parents in child development?

    A. You are as old in parenting as your first child. You evolve as a parent as you learn the likes and... Read More

  2. Q. How to talk to kids?

    A. Dadashri has given following valuable points in communicating with children: As a parent, you... Read More

  3. Q. How to talk so kids will listen to you effectively?

    A. Most parents complain that their kids do not listen to them. What do you do when someone on the... Read More

  4. Q. How to guide kids on how to stop eating junk food as much as possible?

    A. Nowadays, children are fascinated by the developing world and modern food habits. They prefer to... Read More

  5. Q. What to do when your children make mistakes?

    A. When children make mistakes or do something wrong, the proper way would be to ask him in a friendly... Read More

  6. Q. How to discipline a child without yelling? How do you raise a child with good manners and discipline?

    A. How to discipline a child or how to raise a child is a parenting art. Knowing how to raise a child... Read More

  7. Q. How to deal with temper tantrums in child?

    A. Are you tired of temper tantrums in your child? Well, there are ways to handle your sulking child,... Read More

  8. Q. How to deal with a defiant child or a stubborn child?

    A. What should be done when an open clash between you and your child arises? What should be done when... Read More

  9. Q. Which is the good parenting skill to practice in front of a child?

    A. Two minds can never be of the same opinion always. So, there will be a difference between views of... Read More

  10. Q. How to stop yelling at your kids? How to stop nagging?

    A. At the end of the day, you feel tired that after all the nagging and yelling, nothing has improved.... Read More

  11. Q. How to break bad habits of kids?

    A. Looking for how to break bad habits of your kids? Let’s get started! Consider the following... Read More

  12. Q. What is the role of parents in kids’ education?

    A. Kids education is indispensable in today’s world. So, what is parents role in child education?... Read More

  13. Q. How to go about parenting teenagers ?

    A. Parents have to take the initiative to fill the gap between the two generations. When the child... Read More

  14. Q. How to teach moral values to children?

    A. What is the role of a good parent? They should mold their child in such a way that by the age of... Read More

  15. Q. How to strengthen parent child relationship?

    A. A parent child relationship is two-sided. Both parent and child should individually make efforts to... Read More

  16. Q. How much inheritance for your children?

    A. You should spend well and not keep too much aside for your children regardless of how much they... Read More

  17. Q. What is the power of prayer for children? How do I pray for kids?

    A. We all know that we should not get angry with the child or say hurtful words or scold them or beat... Read More

  18. Q. How to Deal with Teenagers as a Single Parent?

    A. Seeking how to deal with teenagers tends to become the only goal of any parent’s life when their... Read More

Spiritual Quotes

  1. Your children are your mirror. They reflect your own faults.
  2. Love that fluctuates is not true love; it is attachment. Love that is constant is God's love.
  3. No one in the world improves through physical or verbal abuse. They benefit from being shown the right way to act.
  4. Every young adult has the potential power to help the entire world. He just needs the right guidance and support. Without such guidance the youth has turned selfish and has a very self-centered view of life. They will prey on others for their own worldly comfort and happiness. He who renounces his own happiness can make others happy.
  5. Children bring with them their personalities at birth, but you have to help and nurture them so that they flourish.
  6. Keep positive intents (bhaavs) for your children. This will bring good results. They will change for the better and this will happen naturally.
  7. The day you stop arguing and nagging your children, they will begin to improve. It is because your words do not come out right that they get aggravated. They do not embrace your words, but simply throw them back at you.
  8. Parents attempt to mould their children into replicas of themselves. They should let them blossom on their own. They should know the children's strong points and nurture them instead.
  9. Parents should speak in such a way, that children become interested in what they have to say. Only then would children listen to their parents.
  10. Real parents are those who manage to change their children's behavior through love and understanding, even when the child does dreadful things. But such love is not to be found, because the parents themselves are loveless. This world can only be won over through love.

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