Learn Conflict Management in Life

Each one of us desires to live a happy life. However, a happy life is the one which is free from conflicts. Do you know the actual definition of conflict? Well, it is nothing but the difference of opinions that exist between two minds. Despite the love that exists between spouses, covert conflicts and consequently overt quarrels occur between them. Even parents and children tend to bicker and quarrel every now and then. Last but not the least, quarreling and revenges due to conflict are also evident amongst colleagues. Why conflict has taken such a stronghold everywhere? What’s the reason behind it? Well, the prime cause of conflict is misunderstanding.

So, understanding is the sole powerful key to conflict management. Irrespective of the people between whom the conflict has aroused, managing conflict becomes easy by removing misunderstanding through right understanding. When it is the matter of how to resolve conflict, there are many interpersonal conflict resolution techniques to remove misunderstanding between colleagues, spouses, children, parents, and so on. These techniques are shown by our beloved spiritual master ‘Dadashri’ who has disclosed all possible keys of conflict management between relationships apart from explaining the causes of conflicts.

Read on to know about these diverse conflict resolution techniques...

 

Life without Conflicts

If you can see your parents' circumstances, you will stop arguing with them and you can easily avoid conflicts with them.

Spiritual Quotes

  1. What is the purpose of the human life? It is to free yourself completely from the bondage of rebirths. It is to become Absolute, the pure Self, but if you have not acquired the knowledge of the pure Self, then live your life for others.
  2. External conflicts lasts one life and Internal conflicts may last for hundreds of life times. They may even last for thousands of life times
  3. One is not to win the world, he has to win the home (family).
  4. If one's mind becomes conflict-free that is "moksha" (liberation), conflict filled mind that is worldly life.
  5. Your life should become free of conflicts. The home environment must be free from conflicts. Only then should one talk of liberation, not otherwise.
  6. True parents will tell their son he is walking down the wrong path of life, and upon telling him, the son will stop his wrongdoings. That is the definition of true parents.
  7. Parents tend to show so much affection towards their children that they become spoilt.
  8. No personality (prakruti) is a waste, but you have to discover what it is useful for. You do not have to keep saying, 'You do not know how to make this sweet. You do not know how to do this and how to do that.' But, instead discover what he knows.
  9. What are the signs of being enlightened? It is when everyone in the home does wrong and you turn it around and make it right.
  10. God has said that giving advice to anyone without being asked is egoism.

 

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