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Pratikraman : Solutions to relationship problems

Are you trapped in the never-ending, intense emotions of anger, greed, suspicion, jealousy, and animosity for anyone? Have you committed a sin that is now making you feel guilty or depressed? Have you just realized that you tend to hurt people through thoughts, speech, and actions? Is there a relationship that is taking away your internal peace via daily fights, contempt, or conflicts? Do you have a bad habit such lying, making fun of others, or stealing? If your answer to one or more of these questions is yes, you truly may be seeking how to sow the seeds of peace and bring happiness back in your life, right?

Well, there is one easy and effective solution to all these problems – Pratikraman! It is the means to get guaranteed freedom through apology and repentance for gaining peace of mind so that you can live in harmony with family, friends, and co-workers. Done in the witness of your Lord in whom you believe, Pratikraman is a three-fold, small mental procedure that entails: Apology or confession with understanding, asking for forgiveness with repentance, and making a strong resolution of never to repeat the same again. It is scientific way to get rid of any bad habit, misdeed, sin, or bad emotion!

Param Pujya Dadashri has shown how to use this most powerful weapon of Pratikraman for fighting against all odds of life. Whether it is the matter of how to fix a relationship or how to remove a bad habit, Pratikraman is the spiritually tested way to wash off your wrongdoings, just as you would remove the dirt or stains from your clothes daily. That’s why even Christians do confessions on Sundays, isn’t it? However, it is a virtue that is not restricted to Christianity; in fact, it is a healing practice meant for the entire mankind for retaining humanity!

Pratikraman has such an impact that if you do pratikraman towards someone whether the person is present or not, for one hour, it will bring profound changes within that person. With heart-felt apology and repentance, you will feel lighter. Not only that, but you can even turn your foe into your friend without uttering him a word! You yourself can practically apply pratikraman at every stage of your life and experience peace of mind. 

 

 

Spiritual Quotes on "Pratikraman : Solutions to relationship problems"

  1. At least try doing pratikraman, and then witness the changes of the people in your household. There will be magical changes and effects.
  2. Life is not meant for hurting anyone. If you hurt the person you will surely have to amend the situation.
  3. First the cure is born and then the problem or affliction arises.
  4. Wash away all the contempt you have towards others. Put soap on it and wash it.
  5. Pratikraman is like planting a roasted seed, do not grow, and new causes are not created.
  6. Extremely intelligent people have a tendency to make fun of others. Is such ego not futile? It is the sign of misuse of intellect.
  7. When you sit down to do pratikraman, you will experience the 'nectar' from within and you will feel very light.
  8. No one possesses the power to bother anyone or the power to endure. Each person is merely a puppet going about his business on the world's stage. With pratikraman, these puppets learn to live in peace and harmony. No matter how insane the other person may be, he will come to his senses through your pratikraman.

Science behind "Pratikraman : Solutions to relationship problems"

"Maintain from within, that this smoking is wrong. Furthermore never defend the act of smoking in any manner. If you do, it will only serve to reinforce and protect your habit. Admit that you have a weakness and that it is a bad habit. Only then will the time come that you will be able to break yourself of this addition. If you do not, then this addiction will stay with you forever. I do pratikraman also. One must become free from all opinions held within. It is not acceptable to have an opinion of any kind. By doing pratikraman one attains the ultimate thing. Technically pratikraman is required, but scientifically it is not necessary"

"The faults are like onion layers. As you peel the outer layer of an onion, there is yet another layer beneath. These faults have many layers. With each pratikraman you do, one layer is shed. In this way when you do a hundred or more pratikramans, the fault will eventually go. Some faults will go away after five pratikramans and some may require more. A fault requires as many pratikraman as the number of layers it has. The longer it takes for pratikraman, the bigger and heavier the fault."

For negative acts performed in this life, pratikraman changes the causes within, and therefore the desired result is the effect in the next life.

Try It Yourself

Try It Yourself

1- (a) I don't want to hurt any living entity but still it happens ?what should I do?

(b) Every morning when you begin your day, you must repeat this five times: "I do not wish to hurt a single living being through my mind, my speech, or my body." You will lighten the burden of your responsibility because in reality you only have control over your intent.

You should every day make a very sincere and strong intent, with the same internal focus as one has while counting money say it with same concentration and say it loud.

2- (a) I can only see fault of others in family, This is pinching.

Do Pratikraman

Dadashri: For example if you hurt Chandulal, then you have to invoke the one who is free from, thoughts, speech, and actions; bhav karma, dravya karma, and no karma; of 'Chandulal' (or the name of the person you hurt) and all illusions attached to that name. This One is the 'Shuddhatma Bhagwan' (the pure Soul). Then say, "Dear Shuddhatma Bhagwan, I have spoken in a harsh manner and that is a fault of mine. I am repenting for this mistake. I am asking for your forgiveness. I am resolving not to repeat this mistake. Please give me the strength not to repeat the mistake again." Think of Dada (The fully enlightened Lord within The Gnani Purush) or Shuddhatma Bhagwan when you do your pratikraman. First do alochana, or confession of your mistake. Then do pratikraman, which is the actual asking of forgiveness that will cleanse your mistakes, and lastly do pratyakhyan, which is your resolve never to repeat the mistake.

(b) "When you begin to see everyone in your family as faultless, then you will know that your pratikraman is true. People definitely are faultless; the whole world is faultless. You are bound by your own mistakes, not by theirs."

(c) When you understand this, you will be able to resolve everything.

Dada's Life Example

Dada's Life Example

"It is because of pratikraman that my speech is of the highest quality. It is because of pratikraman that this speech is above any controversy or dispute and accepted by all. Elsewhere all speech creates controversy. Purity in worldly interactions means there is no ego involved in any worldly interactions. Only such a person's speech is accepted by all"

"I tell people that they should never say, "I cannot do…," because within them, they have infinite strength. I tell them to keep repeating the following: "I have infinite strength." Until now you kept saying, "I can't do it." Did the infinite strength within abandon you?"

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