Real Love versus an Affair of Infatuation
Questioner: What kind of love is it when two lovers commit suicide because there is no acceptance from their families?
Dadashri: Aimless, useless love! Then they will say to each other, 'We will be together alone in our next life.' No one should have such expectations. It is each individual's karma that determines where he or she will go. They will never be together.
Questioner: Would they not be together even though that was their wish?
Dadashri: Nothing happens by wishing. The next life is the result of karma of this life. These are all emotional reactions. Did you have an affair of infatuation when you were young? It is when all the evidences and circumstances come together, that one gets involved in this kind of a problem.
1) It is the nature of the mind-body-speech to become emotional. What you have to do is to try and remain in motion.
2) It is to keep in motion. So then there will be normality. But what happens is that they become emotional and so do you; so then what will be the consequence? Then one will try to kill himself.
Real love is that which does not increases or decreases. It is never based on emotional reactions. Find out the definition of Real Love from here.