Tragically, lovers make suicide pacts and commit suicide to escape from social, political or cultural differences that prevent them from being together. Because there is no hope of spending their lives together, they become desperate and end up taking their lives. There are others, who after the death of their partners, commit suicide out of fear of having to spend the rest of their lives alone.
However, the consequences of committing suicide are very grave. People believe it to be an escape from their suffering, but it will only result in greater suffering to come.
When two people make a lovers suicide pact, they do so with the hope of being reunited in their next life. This is not possible because all future births are determined by one’s own individual karma. They are bound in this life and the effects are experienced in the next life. Nothing can alter this science.
Therefore, it does not matter how strong of a desire you have to be united in your next life. It is your individual karma that will determine your next birth.
Every one of us binds karma during the unfolding of circumstances. During this time, we each have our own opinions and react differently, which determine the type of karma we bind. Because we all have different opinions and viewpoints, it is impossible for us to be born in the same location, at the same time, so that we meet each other again in the next life. Param Pujya Dada Bhagwan, who was an enlightened being, has exposed this science of karma. He spent infinite past lives seeking spiritual knowledge and the answers to questions like, ‘What is Karma?’, ‘What is bondage?’ and ‘What is liberation?’ for example.
Therefore, it is better to live your life in peace and harmony. Make a decision to handle all problems with composure, no matter how painful or excessive the suffering is. Make a firm resolve to look for a solution and overcome your misery. Suicide should never be an option, because you will suffer the consequences in your next life.
Think about it… If you commit suicide, then you are giving up on any chance of being together. It is like running away from a fight, even before it has started. Instead, try these other solutions: