1. The love
Just as we tap a rupee coin to test its authenticity, find an
excuse to scold the other person and see their reaction. Nowadays
selfishness is rampant. People will feign love for selfish motives.
You should test it to see whether it is real love or not.
The one with such love (Real Love) will remain calm when scolded
and take the utmost care not to hurt the offender. In the presence
of such love even the wicked person would melt and surrender.
2. Become the
embodiment of pure love:
If a person leaves after insulting you, and returns a few minutes
later, if your love for him does not diminish, that is pure love
(shuddha prem). One needs to learn to have this kind of
love, nothing else. You should have the kind of love that I show
you. Will you be able to manage this before this life comes to an
end? So now learn to have such a love.
3. Feel love:
It is when you ask for
forgiveness for all mistakes that have occurred so far. You
accept that you, and only you are at fault for seeing fault in
others. You should take this approach with those for whom you wish
to become the embodiment of love. Only then will you feel love. Do
you want to love or not?