If there is no intent of hostility left within you, then the
other person will not have any intent of hostility towards you
either. If you do not get annoyed or angry, neither will they.
Man runs around in vain chasing illusionary happiness and when
his wife turns against him, he realizes that this worldly life is
not meant for enjoyment or indulging in. Yet, he forgets this fact
again the very next moment! Because of this illusion he takes such
a beating, it renders him completely oblivious to the reality.
Your energies will grow in proportion with the amount of
adjustments you make; your weakness will break by that much.
The Lord has said, "If you improve, then everything else will
improve in your presence."