Avoid Clashes : for a conflict free life

1. In all clashes, both parties suffer. If you hurt anyone, you will inevitably suffer pain at that moment.
2. Clashes occur because you follow your own laws and interpretations.
3. The world has been created through conflicts and perpetuated through revenge.
4. If someone tries to clash with you but you do not clash with them, then common sense will arise.
5. Difference of opinion is a clash, and to clash is a "weakness".
6. In this world, all conflicts you encounter are due entirely to your own mistakes.
7. To clash is only our own ignorance. There is no such thing as "right" or "wrong" in God's eyes. According to God, duality does not exist at all.
8. Situations of conflicts dealt with the knowledge of Akram Vignan will lead towards your spiritual progress.
9. Avoid clash in all situations of life. A clash-free life is a life of liberation.
10. If the other person makes a mistake, it has no value; but if a clash occurs (with someone), there are serious consequences. God does not exist where there is clash.

1. This world is one big conflict itself. This conflict is in the form of vibrations. Therefore, avoid conflicts. The world has been created through conflicts and perpetuated through revenge. Every human being, in fact every living creature, is capable of harbouring revenge. Where there is excessive conflict, they will not leave you without harbouring vengeance against you. Whether it is with a snake or a scorpion, a bullock or an ox, whatever it is, it will hold a grudge. It is because there is Soul present in every living being, and the strength of the Soul is the same for all. A living being in conflict with you, may let go and suffer because of his or her weaknesses but they will harbour inner grudge against you. This grudge will plant a seed of revenge, which will be expressed in your next life.
2. As one progresses in following his decision to avoid clash, his intuition grows. No one needs to show him anything. The learning process is spontaneous. These words are such that they will take you to moksha (liberation).

(a) Problem : Conflicts happens in my daily activities. How can I transform my life ?

(b) Dada's Solution : To attain such a state, all one has to do is to make a firm resolve to avoid clash at all costs. 'No matter how persistent the opponent, I will not clash with him or her.'  Each morning you should all make a vow not to see faults in others and not to come into conflict with anyone throughout the day.

(c) Result : This will bring forth tremendous, inner energies to resolve all kinds of conflicts, no matter how severe they may be. Your joyful attitude and tolerant speech that results from this will enrich those around you and help nourish contentment, happiness and love within yourself.

1. Generally the older person tries to control the younger by finding faults with him. He should just take the blame on himself and admit that the fault is his if the problem is to be solved quickly. What I do if the other person does not have the capacity for tolerance is take it upon myself. I do not blame others. Why should I, when I am able to contain it all within me like an ocean? We become noble and graceful to all around us if we can do this. Children will also feel our love. They will notice our openness. Deposit everything that comes to you. It is the law of this world that if a person insults you, he leaves all his energy for you. Therefore, accept it with joy.