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When can one say that they have gained from the family members at home? It is when they feel love towards you and they miss you. They look forward to the times with you. People get married but there is no love there. It is only a sexual attraction and need. If it were love, then no matter how many differences they have, their love would not go away. The absence of such a love is called infatuation and attraction. Infatuation and attraction is a waste. Love worth mentioning used to exist in the past. If the husband went abroad for a prolonged period, the wife's chit (inner attentive vision) would remain with her husband her entire life. She would not think about anyone else. Nowadays if the husband does not return within two years the woman will find someone else. How can this be called love? It is all a waste. In love there is surrender and devotion.
Love is a constant internal attraction. It stays on one's mind the whole day. Marriages end up in two ways: either they will thrive or they will end. Love that overflows will subside again. That which overflows is infatuation and attraction, so stay away from love that overflows. The attraction in love should be for the person rather than his or her physical condition. The love should remain the same even if the external body is diseased or is disfigured. When they are newly married the husband caresses his wife's hand, but if she burns that hand in an accident and asks his help in washing and dressing it, he is repulsed. How can there be such repulsion? Where there is love, there is no repulsion and where there is repulsion, there is no love. Even the worldly love should not increase or decrease to this extent. It should be within limits. A Gnani's love is divine love, which never increases or decreases.
Love should exist everywhere. Only love should prevail in the home. Where there is love, one does not see fault in others. When a man acts like a husband, it is egoism, not love. No matter how many mistakes there are, in love one endures them all. Do you understand that?
Questioner: Yes Dada.
Dadashri: So if there is a mistake, you have to let it go for the sake of love. If you love your son, then you cannot look at his mistakes, moreover you have to reassure him that everything is going to be fine. Love endures everything.
This is all infatuation and attraction! One moment the wife will embrace her husband and the next she will criticize him. There is no criticism in love. In love, one cannot look at any faults. In love you do not see faults in a person, ever. Do these people truly have love? Reject such a love.
You will not see real love in this time cycle. You will not see real love. One man told me, 'I love her so much. Even then she insults and rejects me!' I told him that it was not love. No one rejects real love.
Q. Why love of a mother is the highest form of worldly love?
A. Real love should not break under any circumstances. So it can only be called love if it never breaks. That is the test of love. However, whatever love...Read More
Q. Do you have love for your children?
A. One has to understand these things! Right now you wonder whether there is such a thing as love in this world? Questioner: Nowadays, we think that the...Read More
Q. How to behave with children?
A. Questioner: The power of love is greater than the power of authority, right? Dadashri: Yes, but you can only love when all your other weaknesses go away....Read More
A. Questioner: If someone is doing something wrong and you comment on his negative actions in order to help him but instead the comment hurts him, how can...Read More
Q. Why there is failure in love these days?
A. Questioner: These days, boys and girls fall in love because of infatuation and attraction. Do they fail because of this illusionary love? Dadashri: Yes,...Read More
A. Questioner: What kind of love is it when two lovers commit suicide because there is no acceptance from their families? Dadashri: Aimless, useless love!...Read More
Q. Why do couples fight in spite of having love? What causes conflicts in relationship?
A. Questioner: Why is it that sometimes although we do not want to harbor abhorrence towards others, we still end up doing it? Dadashri: Whom are you...Read More
Q. Does true love exist in relationships?
A. The world is perplexed because it believes that infatuation and attraction is love. All this is because of a man's need for a woman and a woman's need for...Read More
A. Questioner: What is the difference between love of illusion and real love? Dadashri: The moth hovers around the flame and sacrifices its life in it. That...Read More
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