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Who is responsible for my suffering?

Dadashri: Whose mistake is it? It is the sufferer's. What is the mistake? The mistake is his belief of 'I am Chandulal (replace your name here) .' That is the mistake. In reality, no one in this world is at fault, so no one can be blamed. This is a fact.

No one in this world is capable of doing anything. Whatever accounts one has already created will bind him. Whatever entangled accounts you have created will not release you until they bring you their entangled results. But from now on, do not create any new complicated accounts. You should stop now that you are aware of this. You will have to settle the old accounts that you have created, but make sure you do not create any new ones. You are solely responsible for yourself. It is not God's responsibility. God does not interfere in this, so even God is not able to grant forgiveness. Many devotees believe that even if they commit a sin, God will forgive them. There is no forgiveness from God. Forgiveness comes from people who are kind. If you were to confess to a kind person that you have made a very big mistake against him, he will forgive you immediately.

The person who inflicts suffering on you is merely a nimit and the main fault is your own. The person who hurts you or the person who brings you joy are both nimits. Everything happens because of past accounts.

I am telling you very frankly that no one has the power to interfere in your life. But if you are at fault, then anyone will be able to interfere. They may even hit you. I know the causes behind your suffering. These causes are yours only. No one hurts you, you hurt yourself. You are solely responsible for your worldly life.

Chandulal* =  Whenever Dadashri uses the name 'Chandulal' or the name of the person Dadashri is addressing, the reader should insert his or her name for exact understanding.

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