Questioner: I worry about my business; there are a lot of difficulties that are arising.
Dadashri: When the worries begin, you should understand that the work is going to get spoiled. When worries do not arise, then you should understand that the work is not going to be spoiled. Worries are an impediment to any work. Worries actually bring failure to a business. That which fluctuates is indeed referred to as business; it is influx and outflux (puran-galan). That which fills is bound to empty. There is no asset of your own [as the Self] within this influx and outflux. And there is nothing that undergoes influx or outflux in that which is Your asset! That is how exact the worldly interactions are! Within your household, your wife and children are all partners, aren’t they?
Questioner: They are in terms of happiness and unhappiness.
Dadashri: You are considered the guardian of your wife and children. Why should the guardian worry all by himself? And on the contrary, your family members tell you to not worry about them. Would anything be gained by worrying?
Questioner: There are no gains.
Dadashri: There are no gains? So who would run a futile business like that? If there is anything to gain from worrying, then you should do so.
1) Why do worries occur? One becomes involved (becomes one) with the thoughts that arise and that is why worries arise.
2) If you are going to be suspicious or have doubts, then do so your entire life. If you are going to worry about a loss, then worry all your life, otherwise do not worry.
Book Name: Worries (Page #25 and Page #26)
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