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Questioner : How can you interact with children on their level? Is it by becoming like them?
Dadashri: Do you act like a child in order to interact with your child? Children are afraid of their elders, so your behavior towards them should be such that they do not fear you. You should point out your child's mistakes by explaining things to him rather than intimidating him. You do not gain anything by intimidating children. Because they are younger than you, they will be easily frightened, but this will not get rid of their faults. Instead, their faults will increase internally. Only through explanation will you be able to rid them of their faults.
Questioner : Yes indeed that is what happens, this is my experience that I am sharing. This is my own question and this happens again and again to me.
Dadashri : Yes, that is why I am giving you this example. Suppose your son is twelve years old and you discuss everything with him. He will understand some of the things you tell him and he will not understand the rest. He does not understand your viewpoint so you will have to calmly tell him, 'This is my intention. This is how I look at it. This is what I am trying to convey to you. Whether you understand it or not, please tell me about it later. And if there is anything about your viewpoint that I do not understand, then I will try my best to understand it.' Talk to him in this way.
That is why I tell people that after the age of sixteen they should treat their child like a friend. If you speak to him as a friend, your tone will come out right, but if you behave as a father with him, you will not make any progress and conflicts will continue. What would happen when you behave as a father when he is forty?
Q. What is the impact of words in relationship?
A. Questioner: But many conflicts arise because of the words I use. Dadashri: It is because of words that this world has come into existence. When words come...Read More
A. If a human, would not interfere in the flow of his life, it would run very smoothly. But unfortunately that is not the case and so one does nothing but...Read More
Q. How to avoid argument at home?
A. Questioner : What should we do when we have a big argument at home? Dadashri : A wise person would not get into an argument even if he were offered a...Read More
Q. How to handle kids? Why children argue?
A. Questioner : Children here are very argumentative and when we talk to them, they tell us, 'Why are you lecturing us?' Dadashri: Yes, they argue a lot....Read More
Q. Should we not say anything when some one is lying?
A. Questioner: Should we not say anything even if he is lying or doing something wrong? Dadashri: Yes you can caution him. Tell him, "It would be better if...Read More
Q. How to avoid hurtful words in my business/workplace?
A. Questioner: What should I do in my business when I become angry with someone who does not understand? Dadashri: In a business it is important to speak up...Read More
A. Questioner : If someone says something insulting, how should we deal with it? How should we maintain equanimity? Dadashri : What does our Gnan say? First...Read More
Q. How to have a conflict free relationship?
A. Dadashri: So how do you like it when people quarrel? You don't even like it when dogs fight. All this quarrelling is the result of past karmas....Read More
Q. How to resolve relationship conflict?
A. Questioner: What should we do when we do not know how to speak? Should we remain silent? Dadashri: Keep silent and watch what transpires. What do you do...Read More
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