When does a sexual thought arise? It does so when you see
someone, an attraction occurs and then the thought arises.Sometimes
a sexual thought may occur without any attraction. Once a thought
about sex arises then mind immediately gets stirred up, and with
this the semen exhausts instantly. That is why you should uproot
the sexual thought before it sprouts into a tiny sapling.
Everything else is acceptable, but this sapling of sex is very
dangerous and difficult to destroy.
Sexual Transactions By The Sexual Look
If you can visualize the entire life of this woman that you are
attracted to, you will be free from the attachment and the
attraction. If you visualize with understanding what she looked
like in the womb, what she looked like when she was born, when she
was a little baby, when she becomes very old, when paralysis
occurs, when she is about to be cremated, you do not need to be
taught renunciation. People have lost this vision of their worldly
reality by what they see today. This is maya, the illusion