Stop Fault Finding and Blaming Others: The Most Effective of All Conflict Management Techniques

As long as you find fault in others, you suffer.

Now, you no longer have to suffer…

Param Pujya Dadashri says, “Suffering in this world will remain for you as long as you see faults of the world and others. Freedom will be yours when you see the world and others as innocent.” Once you start to see your own faults, and stop blaming others, you experience inner peace.

So how do you stop blaming others? How can you break the veils of flawed vision? What conflict management techniques can you use to overcome this? How do I accept that it is my fault? The Gnani Purush (Enlightened One) through Self Realization, gives us the flawless vision, with the help of which, we stop finding faults in others. With this Flawless Vision, which is one of the effective conflict management techniques, you will see people, things, and situations the way they are.

Read on to know how you can progress spiritually by seeing your own faults.

Spiritual Quotes

All misery and suffering in this world is a consequence of lack of understanding.
When you engage in criticisms you are dissipating your own energies.
When you confess your mistakes, your strength begins to grow.
When you begin to see your own faults, you have attained Right Vision.
Once you are awakened to The Self, you become aware of your mistakes; otherwise you can never see your own faults or mistakes.
Suffering in this world will remain for you as long as you see faults of the world and others. Freedom will be yours when you see the world and others as innocent.
Once a person decides that he wants to destroy all his mistakes, he can become fully enlightened.
When you see faults in others, you bind karma and when you see your own faults, you are released from karmas.
What is the meaning of difference of opinions? It is to clash (bump) with a wall. If we hit our head, is it the wall’s fault or our’s?
In this world, if you raise objections saying, ‘my mother-in-law harasses me. My father-in-law harasses me’, then there is no end to it. Instead, just put up a sign that says, ‘no objection whatsoever!’ Even if someone comes raising objection [issues with you], you do not let any problems with him, can you or can you not keep it that way?
If you have difference of opinions, that is your weakness. People are not wrong. No one does anything deliberately. You should ask for forgiveness and accept that you are at fault. We should ask for forgiveness that I am at fault.
People will listen to you when you become the ‘Embodiment of Love’ [Prem Swaroop]. When can you become the ‘Embodiment of Love’? When you do not look for laws or rules; When you do not see anyone at fault.
There is no one in the world to bother the one who wants to see only his own faults, and no one else’s.
The ultimate awareness is the kind where no one in this world is seen at fault at all!
As long as you see faults of the world, you will have to wander around, and when you see the world as flawless, you will have liberation.
On what basis did the vitrags (the enlightened ones) see the world as flawless? On the basis that everyone is dependent on his or her karma (deeds).
As long as one finds faults with the world, he won’t be able to find anything about the Soul (Self). He who sees his own faults is the Soul (Self) himself!
When one sees his own faults, he will not have the time to see the others’ faults.
To come to a decision that someone is at fault when he is not actually at fault is raudradhyan (an adverse internal state of being that hurts oneself and others)!
Quarrels and differences of opinions are solely due to a flawed-vision.
As long as one finds faults with the world, he won’t be able to find anything about the Soul (Self). He who sees his own faults is the Soul (Self) himself!
This world is not at fault, the world is beautiful. If your understanding is wrong, what can the world do?
Seeing faults of others is the reflection of our own faults. The biggest fault is that of our own! It is called mad ego!
When the vision becomes right [correct], one sees only his own faults and when the vision is wrong [incorrect], he sees others at fault.

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