Avoid Clashes: One of the Easiest Conflict Resolution Techniques

“Avoid Clashes”

This is one of the easiest conflict resolution techniques. When absorbed in your daily routine, it fills your life with immense peace and harmony.

Let us study how to deal with conflict in two different scenarios and learn how to apply conflict resolution techniques in both, in order to avoid clashes.

Scenario 1 - When you clash with someone:

Say you bang your head against a wall, you get hurt, but the wall remains unaffected. In the same way, when you clash with someone it means that you are creating the conflict and therefore hurting yourself.

Scenario 2 - When someone comes to clash with you:

When a charging bull comes your way, even if you are a king you would have to move aside to avoid getting hurt. When such situations arise in your life you should avoid clashing with the other person and move aside to avoid getting hurt.

By applying the conflict resolution techniques within these pages in your day-to-day life, you can create a conflict free environment around you. Param Pujya Dadashri has exposed this science behind ‘Avoid Clashes’ and you can read more about it here.

Avoid Clashes

If we fight with parents for money with our parents, she may give but not with her heart. We argue with parents for our wants. They are working for kids.

Spiritual Quotes

In all clashes, both parties suffer. If you hurt anyone, you will inevitably suffer pain at that moment.
The world has been created through conflicts and perpetuated through revenge.
If someone tries to clash with you but you do not clash with them, then common sense will arise.
Difference of opinion is a clash, and to clash is a ‘weakness’.
In this world, all conflicts you encounter are due entirely to your own mistakes.
To clash is only our own ignorance. There is no such thing as "right" or "wrong" in God's eyes. According to God, duality does not exist at all.
Situations of conflicts dealt with the knowledge of Akram Vignan will lead towards your spiritual progress.
Avoid clash in all situations of life. A clash-free life is a life of liberation.
If the other person makes a mistake, it has no value; but if a clash occurs (with someone), there are serious consequences. God does not exist where there is clash.
If we clash with someone, it is our own weakness.
How does ‘common sense’ arise? Through conflicts. During conflicts, if one does not clash with anyone, even if the other person comes clashing with him, he should not clash with him. If one is able to remain this way, ‘common sense’ will arise. Otherwise, whatever ‘common sense’ there is, it too will disappear!
All the energy is destroyed due to conflict. That is why the infinite energy of the soul does not manifest (is not seen). If the slightest negative intent occurs, or the eye raises (on someone), it is conflict. What happens if you collide with a wall? You will crack your head. In the absence of conflict alone, man could go to moksha. If one learns only this: ‘I do not want to get into conflict with anyone’, he will go directly to moksha. Then no guru or anyone else would be needed in between.
Enmity [Revengeful Karma] is the main seed of conflict [clash].
Where difference of opinions arises, to retract our words is a sign of a wise man.
Our talk is right and the other person’s talk is wrong, however if a conflict occurs, then it is wrong.
That which gives detailed analysis of anger-pride-deceit-greed and puts them aside and doesn’t allow any clashes to occur at home, is known as intellect. It makes one do ‘everywhere adjustment’.
‘Do not ever get involved in clashing with anyone’ – this is the biggest key to go to moksha (ultimate liberation).
If at all the energies of the Soul (Atmashakti) gets wasted, it is due to conflicts. Endless energy is lost due to conflicts! Even with slightest collision (conflict) it is all over! If we maintain equanimity with awareness and do not conflict with the other person, then work will go on.
What is the meaning of difference of opinions? It is to clash (bump) with a wall. If we hit our head, is it the wall’s fault or our’s?
How can we call anyone’s view point as being wrong? Can we tell a blind man off if he bumps into a wall? Hey, he bumped into the wall because he was blind.
If the laws of traffic are honored, then the car will not collide anywhere. If you abide by all kinds of laws of this world, then you will not collide anywhere.

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