Dadashri: These clashes need to be resolved. Why do we want to spoil everything through conflicts? This simply does not suit us. People abide by traffic laws, which are strict regulations and they don't drive according to their own interpretations do they? Because they abide by traffic regulations, they are spared from accidents. Likewise, in your daily life you must follow the laws that prevent clashes. Clashes occur because you follow your own laws and interpretations. When people obey the traffic laws there are no difficulties with the way traffic runs. If you apply the same rule with this understanding to your daily interactions, you will never run into difficulties again. The problems arise because of your own limited interpretations of the laws of life. There is a fundamental error in understanding the laws of life.The one who explains these laws must have a thorough experience of these laws.
Look at how well you observe the traffic rules. It is because you have made a firm decision to abide by them. Why is your ego not telling you to disregard these laws? It is because you understand with your intellect that you might injure yourself, or even be killed if you violate the traffic laws. You can directly experience the outcome with your senses. The intellect however, fails to make you realize the fatal consequences from engaging in conflict with people because it is beyond your sense perception. This is very subtle matter and the damage it causes is subtle.
1) Conflict arises because of your own ignorance. If you clash with anyone, it is a sign of your own ignorance.
2) If the other person makes a mistake, it has no value; but if a clash occurs (with someone), there are serious consequences. God does not exist where there is clash.
(a) Problem : Conflicts happens in my daily activities. How can I transform my life ?
(b) Dada's Solution : To attain such a state, all one has to do is to make a firm resolve to avoid clash at all costs. 'No matter how persistent the opponent, I will not clash with him or her.' Each morning you should all make a vow not to see faults in others and not to come into conflict with anyone throughout the day.
(c) Result : This will bring forth tremendous, inner energies to resolve all kinds of conflicts, no matter how severe they may be. Your joyful attitude and tolerant speech that results from this will enrich those around you and help nourish contentment, happiness and love within yourself.
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