Questioner : What causes conflicts? Is it incompati-bility?

Dadashri : Conflicts arise because of ignorance; ignorance of the nature of the real Self and of the world. In this world the natural characteristics of every individual are different.  Once you attain this knowledge of the Self(Self Realization) , there is only one-way: Adjust everywhere. If someone hits you, you must adjust to him.

I am showing you this simple and straightforward way. These conflicts do not occur everyday. They only occur when your past karmas are ready to give their results. Adjust, when this happens.  If a fight occurs with your wife, make her happy afterwards by taking her out for a dinner. From now on the strain in your relationship should not linger.

Nothing in this world will adapt to us, but if we are able to fit into it, the world will be good to us.  If we try to make it adapt to us, then it will be awkward. Therefore, adjust everywhere.  If we fit into it, there will be no problems.