At home, one must know how to adjust.  If we come home late from satsang, what will she say?  “You should keep an eye on the time.” What is wrong with coming home a little early?

Have you ever seen how a bullock is handled on the farm?  When the bullock does not move, he is prodded with a long stick with a nail at the end, but if he keeps moving, he will not be hurt. What can the dumb beast do?  Whom can it complain to? If people were poked and prodded like this, others will come to their rescue, but whom can the poor animal complain to? Why does a husband suffer in this manner?   This is the result of his actions in his previous life. In his previous life he had accused others a lot. At that time he was in power, just like the man who prods the bull. Now, you are powerless so adjust without any complaints.  So in this life, do “ plus-minus”. (This is Dadashri’s terminology to settle past accounts : law of spirituality).

It is better not to accuse anyone at all.  If you become an accuser, you will be accused. We do not want any part of this. If someone insults you, accept it. Credit it to your account.  How do you feel about this?  Is it good to be an accuser? Why not adjust from the beginning?