Sun 04 Jan
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Parayan (Advanced Study) in Adalaj, India
Sat, Dec 20
to Dec 27
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Whatever comes your way is a result of your own doing. Settle
all your past accounts and do not create any new 'loans'.
Questioner: What do you mean by new
Dadashri: If someone insults you and you feel
within your mind, 'Why is he doing this to me?' then you have
created a new 'loan' i.e. bound a new karma. As the previous
account is being settled, you are creating a new one. Instead of
crediting the insult and settling the past account, you are
creating a new one. In you past life, you had given one insult, but
when the nimit comes to return that insult, you turn
around and loan five more. As it is you cannot tolerate this insult
but you continue to create a newer and bigger account with five
more insults and this puzzles you! This is how all confusion
arises. Now how can the human intellect comprehend such a
If you cannot afford to continue such transactions, then do not
give back anything new in return. But if you can afford to do so,
then give five more again.
Questioner: We credit the insult once, twice or
even a hundred times. Should we carry on crediting them every
Dadashri: Yes. When you return the insult, you
create a debit and start a new account. Instead, why not let a
hundred thousand insults come your way and just credit them all?
One day the end will come. You will see. Just do what I tell
Questioner: They have not stopped coming even
after so many years.
Dadashri: Instead of thinking about anything
else, do as I tell you, and it will all come to an end. I have also
been doing the same thing and crediting everything. For the past
twentyeight years, I have not created a new account. All accounts
have been cleared.
If you asked your neighbor to verbally abuse you five times each
morning, he would say that he had no time for it. You only
encounter insults if you have a pending account. Nobody will insult
you if there is no account, and if you do have a pending account,
no one will leave you alone.
From now on the only effort (purushaarth) you have to
make is to 'drink the poison with a smile'. If one day you have a
difference of opinion with your son and he gives you a cup of
poison (bitter words), will you not have to drink it? Are you going
to throw it back in his face? You will have to accept it, will you
Did you Know : Get
more insight on "What is Karma? : The Science of
nimit - One who becomes instrumental
in a process; Apparent doer; A living or non-living instrumental
evidence in unfolding karma effect; Evidentiary instrument
: Science of Speech (Page
#22 Paragraph #2 onwards;Page #23 Paragraph #1,#2,#3)
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