1 - (a) Question: What should I do to be free from the infatuation and attraction for my dead wife/husband/relative?
(b) Answer: The problem was created with him believing, 'She is mine, she is mine.' Now by reciting, 'She is not mine, she is not mine,' the attachment will dissolve. The threads that were wound have to be unwound.
(c) You will see your attachment towards anyone dead will reduce and you will feel lighter within.Do you want to be free from your attachments and infatuation , completely then come experience Dada's Gnan Vidhi.
2 - (a) Question: How to improve children?
(b) Answer: At home you should create such an atmosphere of love that your children would hate to leave. When all they see is your love, and nothing but love, you will make an impression on them and they will listen to you. Then they will accept your values.
Why does a child start to cry when you hit him gently? He cries because he feels the pain from the insult and not the physical pain.
The only way to improve this world is through love.