The Gnani will adjust even with the person who refuses to adjust. If you observe the self enlightened Being(Gnani Purush), you can learn to make all kinds of adjustments. The science behind the gyan helps you become vitraag, which means freedom from attachment and abhorrence. Your suffering is because of this attachment or abhorrence that still exists within you. You will be labeled a misfit if you become indifferent and apathetic in your worldly dealings. We must be able to convince even the most obstinate and the disagreeable people. If we need a porter at a railway station, and he haggles with the charges, we have to settle the deal with a few extra rupees.  If we don’t, we will have to carry the luggage ourselves.

Don’t see laws, please settle”. Where is the time to ask the other person to settle and adjust? Even if the other person makes hundreds of mistakes, consider them your own mistakes and move on. In these times, where is the place to seek justice? These are bad times. Chaos exists everywhere. People are puzzled. When he goes home, his wife yells at him and his children pout. At work his employer bosses over him. In the subways he is pushed around by the mass of people. There is no peace anywhere. Everyone needs peace. If someone erupts in a quarrel, we should be compassionate and think: “Goodness, he must feel so frustrated that he is quarreling.” Those who become frustrated are weak.