Even the Lord had fear of sexuality. The vitarags have never had any fear of anything, except of sexuality. What I mean by fear is that if a snake comes in then wouldn't every person lift their feet up?
Those who are not satisfied in their hunger for food, their chit will roam around food and when they see a restaurant they will get stuck there. Is food the only vishaya, object of satisfaction? There are these five senses and there are so many objects of satisfaction through them. When you have not been satisfied with eating, you will be attracted to more food. Similarly if you are not satisfied in sexual looking, you will keep look around with all kinds of sexual cravings. When a man has not been satisfied by a woman and vice versa, their chit would be stuck in sexuality only. The Lord has called this an illusion (moha), and attachment. It gets stuck the moment you see what has not satisfied you. The chit gets stuck as soon as it sees a woman.
He sees, 'this is a woman'. This is the disease of the man. If a man has this disease then he will see the woman, otherwise he will see only the soul in that person. To see, 'This is a man', is the disease of the woman. Salvation (Moksha) happens when this disease is eradicated. I am free from this disease now. These thoughts never come to me.
A man and a woman must never touch each other. Therein lies tremendous danger. Until one has become Absolute, they should not touch. One atom of sexuality entering you has the potential of ruining many lives. I do not have a single atom of sexuality within me. Pratikraman (divine prayer) should be done immediately, if even one atom gets corrupted. Pratikraman (divine prayer) prevents any sexual intent arising in the other person.
Ignorance of the Self, coupled with the present worldly knowledge, gives rise to attachment and attraction. If you can visualize the entire life spectrum of this woman that you are attracted to, you will be free from the attachment and the attraction. If you visualize with understanding what she looked like in the womb, what she looked like when she was born, when she was a little baby, when she becomes very old, when paralysis happens, when she is about to be cremated, you do not need to be taught renunciation. People have lost this vision of their worldly reality by what they see today. This is maya, the illusion.