Who goes to hell? What is result of illicit sex?

Having sex with someone other than one's own married partner is a cause to go to hell. If you want to go to hell then think of doing this. I have no problem with that. If it were convenient to you, I would describe the miseries of hell. You will have a fever just listening to it, then imagine what would happen if you actually had to suffer those pains? There is no problem of sex with your own wife.

Nature has accepted relation between a husband and a wife. There is no problem if this relationship does not give rise to desires for illicit sexual gratification. Nature has made that much allowance. Rightful sex would not result in demerit karmas whereas there are innumerable demerit karmas in illicit sex. Just in one sexual act even with the wife, millions of life forms die.Are these few demerit karmas? But it is still not as big demerit karma as having sex with a woman other than one's own wife. There is no sin higher than the sin of illicit sex.

Questioner : Who are the most likely to go to hell?

Dadashri : Rapists go to the seventh hell. Whatever pleasure they had experienced, when they experience infinitely higher misery and pain, they will decide that they do not want to go to hell anymore. Therefore, in this world if there is anything that you most definitely should not do, it is to rape someone. Never allow your intentions to be tainted sexually. One who rapes anyone goes to hell and has nothing but constant suffering there. In this world there is nothing higher than a woman's chastity.

In this satsang if you have such a treacherous sexual thought than I would say that any further satsang is meaningless.Here, this type of behavior would not be tolerated at all and if this ever came into my attention, I will throw you out.

Whatever mistakes one has made in this world so far, whatever serious mistakes they may be, if one brings them to me, and if he were never going to make them again in this life, then I would cleanse him in every way.

Do you feel any repentance when listening to this?

Questioner : Yes, I do feel a lot.

Dadashri : If you burn your sins in repentance even then your bad deeds would end. After listening to all this, if you were to ask me, "What would happen to me?" I would reassure you that I would help you. There are conditions. You have to wise up from today. From the moment you become aware of your mistake and do pratikramans with sincerity. I would get rid of your ticket to hell because I have the ways to do so. This is the power of the Gnani Purush. I will show you what to do next. Then it would all disappear and I would do many other vidhis, special blessings, for you.

Would people not point finger at you if you were having an affair with another woman? So, this is going against the community standards of the world and secondly, you experience so many worries and tension internally. The sufferings in hell are like burning in the electric gas for a long time. There is one hell where the suffering is from the electric heat and in the other hell the suffering is from extreme cold. It is so cold there that if we throw the Pavagadh Mountain in it, it would not remain as a solid rock. It will disintegrate into minute little particles.

There are a lot of dangers involved in having sex with a woman other than your wife. You would have to follow her wherever she goes in her next life. She may come as your mother in the next life. I have seen in my Gnan that there are so many sons, these days, born to their mistresses of their previous life. The son would be of an upper caste and the mother would be of a lower caste. The mother would go to the lower caste and the son would have to go from an upper caste to a lower caste again. Look at these terrible dangers. The woman of past life would become your mother in this birth, and the mother of this birth would become your wife in your next birth. Such are the horrible dangers of this sexual world. In short, make sure you understand this. Prakruti, this complex of thoughts, speech and actions, is not sexual. You are sexual. I have said this before in a different way. But I have said all along that only this is the one serious danger.

Glossary : karma - Actions operating through the law of "cause" and "effect".
Prakruti - Mind-speech-body complex; The relative self; The innate nature of one's relative self that is, the non-Self complex; Inherent characteristic traits 

Reference: Book Name : Brahmacharya : Celibacy - Attained With Understanding (Page #78, Last paragraph,Page #79,Page #80,Page #81 First paragraph)