Sun 17 May
17:30 - 21:00
Satsang By Aptaputra in Varanasi, India
Wed, Apr 29
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The world is perplexed because it believes that infatuation and
attraction is love. All this is because of a man's need for a woman
and a woman's need for a man. When these needs are not met, there
are profuse complaints from the inner working components, the mind,
chit, intellect and ego. No one belongs to anyone in this world,
even for a minute. This has always been the case and it always will
be. This would become evident, if a father were to scold his son
for an hour. The son would retaliate and even threaten to sue for
his share of the inheritance. Only a Gnani
Purush loves you unconditionally. He alone is truly
So do not look for love in this world because there is no such
thing as love in it. Love cannot be found anywhere except in a
Gnani Purush. Everywhere else love disappears and the
quarrels start. That is not called love, it is all infatuation and
attraction, but people refer to it as love. People are always
contradicting themselves! Quarrels cannot be the result of love.
Love means you do not see faults in others.
With love one would never see the fault of the wife or the
children throughout his life. In love, one never sees any faults at
all. Just look at how people find faults with each other. 'You are
like that.' 'No, you are like that.' The world has not seen even an
iota of love. All this is infatuation and attraction of
Wherever there is infatuation and attraction, accusations will
occur for sure. That is the nature of infatuation and attraction.
Accusations like, 'you are like this and you are like that.' And
the spouse will retort, 'you are like that, not me.' Infatuation
and attraction exists in the world, because of quarrels. Quarrels
are vitamins for infatuation and attraction. If there were no
quarrels, one could become enlightened.
Purush - One who has realized the Self and is able to
do the same for others; The Enlightened One; Perfectly enlightened
One, who is free from ego and all worldly attachments and
Reference: Book Name :
Pure Love ( Entire Page #26
and Page #27,Paragraph #1)
Does true love prevail in your home?
Why love of a mother is the highest form of worldly love?
Do you have love for your children?
How to behave with children?
How to advise teenagers?
Why there is failure in love these days?
What is infatuation?
Why do couples fight in spite of having love? What causes conflicts in relationship?
How to test true love?