How to resolve conflicts in marriage? Is silence the solution?

Questioner: Can things be resolved if we stop talking in order to bring the matter to close?

Dadashri: No, nothing will get resolved. If you meet that person, you should ask him how he is doing. But if he starts acting up a little and becomes loud and aggressive, you should maintain your calmness and solve the matter with equanimity. Sooner or later, you will have to deal with it. If you stop talking to him, does that mean things have been resolved? It's just the opposite. It is because the problem has not been solved that people stop talking to each other. When people stop talking, it means there is a burden, a burden of not being able to resolve the problem. You should immediately say, "Tell me if I have made a mistake. I make a lot of mistakes. You are very educated and clever, therefore you don't make too many mistakes, but I am less educated so I make a lot of mistakes!" You have to talk to him in this manner so that he will be happy and come around.

Related Quotes on Resolve Conflicts In Marriage : 
1) One is not to win the world, he has to win the home (family).
2) As long as someone gets hurt in the slightest, on your account; its effect will fall upon you. So beware. If the other person keeps "disadjusting" and you keep "adjusting", then you will cross this worldly life. "Fault is of the sufferer" - if one is able to understand only this much, then not a single clash will remain in the home.
3) The wife and children have come under our shelter. How can we hurt those who have come under our shelter (and support)? We cannot hurt those who are dependent upon us even if they are at fault.

Did you know :Those seeking a more detailed and in depth solution for the worldly life should refer to the long version of Dadashri's books. Books such as, 'Generation Gap,' 'Speech in Worldly Interactions,' 'Money in Worldly Interactions,' ,are books which undoubtedly will bring peace to one's life.

Reference: Book Name :"Harmony in marriage" (Page #62 and paragraph #3).