How can one be a guru without the gurukili - master key?

It is difficult to find a real guru in this world. A mutual self-serving relationship between a guru and his disciple will always prevail and that relationship will sink them both. In other words, the disciple has some desires and needs from the guru, apart from pure spiritual progress, and vice versa, and this will ‘drown’ both of them. What is the meaning of guru? Guru means heavy, therefore he will sink and will sink others with him. Those who have taken the responsibility of being a guru are in the process of sinking and they also pull others down along with them. It is not possible to become a guru without having a gurukili (master key).

Questioner: What is a gurukili? Is it the awareness of the pure Self?
Dadashri: No, if it were, then one would attain moksha. Gurukili used to be given out in the days of Lord Mahavir. Anyone can be a guru provided he is free from all desires of indulging in sensual pleasures (vishayas). This world is full of people afflicted with such diseases (caught in sensual pleasures). In order to be a guru one needs to have a gurukili in his hands. Here some become gurus with a handful of disciples and when their disciples start worshipping them, they become intoxicated with the ego (kef) of respect. But with a Gurukili they would maintain normality.

Why on earth do people become gurus without a gurukili? How can you become a guru without the Avatar giving you a gurukili? Avatar is gurutam (the highest of all; the supreme amongst gurus; there is no one greater than him) and He is also lagutam (the lowliest of the low, the most humble one and there is no one lower than him). If you call ‘us’ Acharaya, ‘we’ would tell you that ‘our’ state is even higher than that. And if you call ‘us’ a donkey, ‘we’ will tell you that ‘we’ are even lower than a donkey. Now how can you recognize such a Gurutam Purush? And if you do happen to recognize such a Purush, then your work is done.